ペアーズ会員の9割が結婚を意識している?

ペアーズ 結婚

よっしゃあー!タッキーだ 

何がよっしゃあーー!!なのか?特に意味はない。

 

本日の記事は、「ペアーズ会員の90%以上が結婚を意識している事実」という記事をお届けする。

 

遊びたい盛りの男性&女性らに悲しいお知らせ

記事のタイトル通り、ペアーズ会員の90%以上が「結婚」を意識しているという事実が判明した。まだまだ遊びたい盛り方々にとっては、とても悲しいお知らせだ。

「ペアーズで気楽に異性と知り合いたかったのに!」

画面の向こうでそう嘆いているかも知れない。

 

しかし、安心してほしい。

ペアーズの公式が発表した「ペアーズ会員の9割以上が結婚を意識している」という事実が、本当に確かなモノなのか?エビデンスをもとに、タッキーなりに考察をしてみた。

公式の発表がかならずしも正解ではないからだ。

 

まずはこちらをご覧いただきたい。

 

公式が発表した統計データ

これはペアーズの公式で発表されたデータである。

ペアーズのプロフィール欄には、「結婚に対する意思」という項目があり、その項目は下記の5つである。

  1. 良い人がいればしたい
  2. 2~3年のうちに
  3. すぐにでもしたい
  4. 今のところ結婚は考えてない
  5. わからない

 

この5つである。

今回のペアーズ公式による発表の結果は、どうやら「アンケートをした結果」というよりも、「プロフィール欄に登録されている項目からのデータ」の集計結果ということらしい。

つまり、ペアーズのプロフィールにある「結婚の意思」について「良い人がいればしたい・2~3年のうちに・すぐにでもしたい」と登録している人が9割以上いる・・・ということなのだ。

この事実をそのまま受け取ってしまえば、たしかに「ペアーズ会員の9割以上が結婚を意識している」・・・ということになる。

 

しかし、これは本当に事実なのだろうか?

 

とにかく無難な回答をしておこうというやつ75%説

「良い人がいれば結婚したい」という曖昧な表現。この回答が全体の75%を占めているのは、先ほどのグラフの通りである。

 

あなたの立場で考えてみてほしい。

できるだけ多くの異性と知り合いたいと思ったとき、無難な回答にしておこうと思うのは当然の話しである。

また、本当は結婚願望ガッツリあるとしても、「結婚したい!!」と大きな声でアピールするのは、少しみっともない気もする。ガツガツしすぎると、異性が引いてしまうということは、無意識にみんな分かっていることなのだ。

つまり、結婚願望がない人でも「良い人がいれば」と言うし、結婚願望ガッツリな人でも「良い人がいれば」と回答しているのがほとんどだろう。

 

当たり前の話しだが、しょっぱなから結婚を意識した付き合いよりも、「まずは気軽な関係から」という人がほとんどだろう。

「誰でもいいから結婚したい!」なんて人は少数派である。

 

つまり、ペアーズで知り合った異性と気軽にいろいろ遊びたい!というチャラい人らも、この統計を見て「ペアーズにいる人らと遊ぶときは結婚前提なのか」と、重く考えてしまう必要はないんだ。

そもそもチャラい人らは、そういったことすら考えないと思うので、この記事を書いた意味はあまりないだろう。

 

逆に、早く結婚したい!という人に悲しいお知らせ

チャラ男なら、こんな記事を読むよりも先に行動してしまっているはずなので、逆に結婚したいと考えている人に向けて記事を進めていこう。

結婚を意識している人であれば、今回の統計データはとても嬉しい結果かも知れない。

 

しかし、残念なことに前述の通り、「多くの人が無難な回答に答えているだけ」だ。

9割以上が結婚に前向きに見える・・・と言っても、7割上の人が「良い人がいれば」と、少し保険をかけた回答をしている。

 

結婚したいと思っている人は、あまり期待しすぎないほうが良いだろう。

ただし、ペアーズ会員の多くは「真面目な恋愛を求めている」傾向が非常に多いので、ここで知り合った異性と良い関係が築ければ、最終的に結婚することはそう難しくないだろ。

 

くまで相手と良好な関係を継続することが大切なのである。

釣った魚にもちゃんとエサをあげるように心がけたいものである。

 

 

それじゃ!

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